Pregnancy Loss Email Support Pals


A few people have commented that an email pals page would provide a valuable support network
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Name:Michele
Email: momto2angels@msn.com
Country: U.S.A
age:31
sex:female
Info:Husband;John. 4 dogs.
2 miscarriages. 3/17/99 and 2/15/00

Name:Marilyn
Email: RWBGAL@aol.com
Country: United States
age:33
sex:female
Info:Miscarried April 19 1995 (my first child) and again in Sept of the same year ( my second angel).
Havent been able to get pregnant since.

Name:Kaz
Email: Karenkissell@hotmail.com
Country: Australia
age:29
sex:female
Info:Husband;Graham,2 sons;Rhys(6)and Liam(2)
3 Losses;10 Jun '95,16 Jan '97 and 3 Jan 2000

Name:Amy
Email: blueyedaze@aol.com
Country: USA
age:21
sex:female
Info:We lost our first baby in March 1998. I most likely cannot carry another. We miss her dearly and i'd love to talk to someone else who understands.
Name:Robin
Email: chrisandrobin@snet.net
Country: United States
age:31
sex:female
Info:Chris and I have been married for 8 years. We have a son (7) and a daughter (2). We lost our third child to miscarriage on 3/2/00. We are trying to conceive again.
Name:Krista
Email: ectopicpregnancy@aol.com
Country: USA
age:28
sex:female
Info:"Lost our first son, Tucker, to ectopic pregnancy. I have a website on ectopic loss (ectopicpregnancy.com) and welcome anyone to visit or write me if you need anything! "
Name:Mandy
Email: mjhann@bedford.net
Country: USA
age:22
sex:female
Info:We lost our firt baby March 10th of 97 he was a 24 week preemie and lived for 13 hours and passed away. We lost our second November of the same year (97) at 6 weeks. Now we have a 14 month old who was born 2-22-99. Was told I could never carry a baby to term without surgery, and I did,this baby was only 1 day early without any complications only bedrest.I am here to talk to anyone that is having trouble dealing with any losses etc. =)
Name:Janice
Email: janice@learn.co.za
Country: South Africa
age:32
sex:female
Info:"Alan and I have been married for 6 years.We have 2 kids:Kerran is nearly 5 and Daniel is 2.We lost our much longed for third child to miscarriage on 13.4.00,after waiting a year to conceive"
Name:Tami
Email: rosebudmommy@bigfoot.com
Country: U.S.A.
age:33
sex:female
Info:"We have 2 girls, 6 years and 4.5. i had 2 MC's in 99. Found out that I have an antibody that may have caused it. I am 26 weeks PG now and on baby asprin. I still need support because i have been exposed to Fifth disease and am worried about that now!"
Name:Wendy
Email: rwhelaudo@aol.com
Country: United States.
age:32
sex:female
Info:"We have two girls, Hannah 3 1/2 yrs and Emily 3 months. We lost Hannah's twin at 31 weeks to Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrom. Hannah has mild CP. Would love to hear from anyone who just needs to talk about loss or a special needs child. "
Name:Jessica
Email: mgpjap@prodigy.net
Country: United States.
age:23
sex:female
Info:"We lost our 1st baby on June 12, 2000. We are hoping to try again. I'm excited and nervous. I have a wonderful husband, a dog, and a cat, but no family close by us. I would love to have someone to "talk" to who understands."
Name:Krista
Email: ectopicpregnancy@aol.com
Country: USA
age:28
sex:female
Info:"Lost our first son, Tucker, to ectopic pregnancy. I have a website on ectopic loss (ectopicpregnancy.com) and welcome anyone to visit or write me if you need anything! "
Name:Adriana
Email: agarcia@hotus.com
Country: USA
age:28
sex:female
Info: Married, have a 4 year old who thinks he will be a BIG brother-we havent told him otherwise. Tried to get pregnant for 6 months, when we found out we were pregnant we were ecstatic....a week later we miscarried. Having a hard time dealing with this....
Name:Audrey
Email: audreycruz@hotmail.com
Country: USA
age:28
sex:female
Info: Lost our first 6/12/00 to Miscarriage.
Husband has children and were trying for our own - I feel we were blessed and I feel it will happen again - God Willing.
My family is far and few. Would love to talk to someone who knows how i feel

Name:Tina
Email: vtrockhill@aol.com
Country: USA
age:41
sex:female
Info: Hi to everyone!We lost our baby boy this past April 10,the day before my husbands birthday, at 20 weeks.This was my fourth child and my husbands first. We were very excited.never dreamed anything would go wrong. He was stillborn at 20 weeks. I go by that,that's what the hospital records say, but from the way things were we believe he died at 16 weeks. I kind of felt something was wrong. We still don't know officially what happened but in our hearts and our minds we know it was from the amnio. Of course that didn't help me. Have no support from family, they feel he's dead and they never really knew him so get on with your life. If only it were that easy.My heart goes out to all the mothers who have lost their little angels.

Name:Jennifer
Email: Mizbiotch514@aol.com
Country: USA
age:20
sex:female
Info: I found out, out of all the days, on Mother's Day of 2000 that I was pregnant. Mother's Day also happened to fall on my 20th birthday this year. I was so excited. I was all ready to be a mother when on June 12, 2000 I started bleeding. When I went to the ER they did an ultrasound and found that there was no heartbeat. I was supposed to be 8 weeks along, but somehow the baby had died at 6 weeks. I still don't know why, I guess it was just his/her time with God. I am looking for someone that is willing to talk about this with me..for I have no one close to talk to. My prayers go out to all those who have suffered the same. -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Kim
Email: Kismedgh@aol.com
Country: USA
age:19
sex:female
Info: I found out on july 8th 2000 that I was pregnant. It was a big surprise. I went to the doctor for the first time on july 14th 2000. The sonogram said I was 5 weeks and 4 days. The doctor said it was really to early to tell if it was a healthy pregnancy or not but everything looked good. We did a sonogram and the baby was 1.4cm. I had a nurses visit scheduled on the 28th for blood work and medical history. When she asked my due date I said I wasn't sure the doctor hadn't given me one. She got the doctor and they did a second sonogram to get an accurate due date. The results changed my life. My baby hadn't grown but .1cm in 2 weeks. my baby was only 1.5cm long. It had stopped growing. He scheduled me to come back in 4 days just to make sure there were no changes. The sonogram said I was 6 weeks 0 days. 2 1/2 weeks after the first one. I had a D & C done yesterday. It's the hardest thing I've ever done. This baby was a big surprise to me but one I was really excited about. In the 20 days I knew I was pregnant my life changed dramaticlly. I will always love and miss my first child that I never got to see or hold. If your going through this talk to someone it really helps. I would love to talk to you. I'm here I know what your going through. E-mail me anytime. It would be really nice to have someone to talk to. And if we pray together we'll all be alright! -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Roxanne
Email: roxannevolkers@hotmail.com
Country: Holland
age:17
sex:female
Info: I had my babyson on May the 20th this year...His name is Quinzell...He was born after 7 months of pregnancy.He died of Anencephaly,the brain had failed to develope. Maybe you would like to take a look at my page...It contains photo's of Quinzell! Feel free to email me,I'm a good listener...Love Roxanne

I have more info on my homepage.... Here!
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Name:Robyn
Email: rojo66@aol.com
Country: USA
age:27
sex:female
Info: We lost our first baby on June 12,2000. Went to the doctor due to dizziness and excessive fatigue. We found out that the heart had stopped. The baby was supposed to be 22 weeks, but doc said it was only 17 weeks. We just found out through blood tests that I have blood clotting problems (anticoagulent and antithrobin3)which may have caused lack of oxygen to the baby and subsequently the miscarriage. We also discovered that I was exposed to cytomegalovirus (CMV) during pregnancy. If you have any information regarding these (especially the blood problems) please let me know. I am having trouble finding understandable info on the web. Thank you. -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Sharon
Email: dncer665@aol.com
Country: USA
age:19
sex:female
Info: It wasn't me but my sister that lost her baby. This was so hard for me too though. My whole family. I loved my sister dearly. This would have been my 7th niece but my sister's first baby. I cried and cried. Till this day I never knew much about it. My sister never talked about it. Your page really helped me understand. If anyone would like to talk with me. I would like to know more. thank you -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Kathy Hagenwald
Email: kathyh869@aol.com
Country: USA
age:31
sex:female
Info: Husband;Jerry, Son; D.J. (2) 1 dog:Mandie I have had 2 miscarriages-9/5/97 & 8/23/2000. Jerry and I are having a very hard time dealing with this and I hope someone can help. How do I explain all of this to my son? We told him that mommy was going to have a baby and that he was going to be a big brother, but how do I explain to him that there is no baby now? -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Kyra
Email: Trueblonde_79@yahoo.com
Country: USA
age:21
sex:female
Info: My husband & I lost our first and only child to Miscarriage At 17 weeks gestion We love and miss him very much i would really love a e-pal because i am really in need of one right now with my Angel Sean's 2 birthday comeing up....If you would like to take a look at my web page it is located at http://www.geocities.com/Seans_Mommy_98 -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Erin
Email: CapeCodr69@aol.com
Country: USA
age:29
sex:female
Info: I had always had irregular periods so I never even knew I was pregnant. When I started bleeding heavily, I figured it was a "bad" period. The next day, I went to the Doctor. They knew I was pregnant because I'd had blood tests done the week before, but they never called me to tell me. Anyway, I told the Nurse Practioner I was having a heavy painful period and she shook her head, and told me I had been about 6 weeks pregnant. The Dr, pulled "tissue" from my cervix, which was extremely painful, gave me some medicine and told me he wanted to see if my hormone levels go down to zero by themselves otherwise I'll need a D&C. My husband, Sean and I lost our baby August 16, 2000. -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Tracy
Email: BradysMom2299@aol.com
Country: USA
age:31
sex:female
Info: I lost my 3rd child, Brady Raymond, on February 2, 1999. I was 20 weeks! It was so sudden and shocking. There were no signs that something was wrong. His little heart had stopped, possibly due to a virus detected after his birth in my blood tests. He will live forever in our hearts as the child we had but can never raise. We have been blessed with our fourth child this past March, another son! -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Patricia and Drew Adams
Email: Adrian060800@aol.com
Country: USA
age:40
sex:female
Info: My husband, Drew, and I had waited a long time to try to have a baby together. (I have 3 children from a previous marriage) We found out that I was pregnant on Mar. 26. We were estatic! A few days later I started spotting. The Dr. said my progesterone was a little low, and put me on suppositories. The next appt. they took an HCG test, and told us over the phone that the baby hadn't developed. We went in for another test, and an ultrasound a few days later, and they told us that things looked fine. A week later, another ultrasound, and we saw our baby's heartbeat! Things were going great, then 3 weeks later, I started to lightly spot again. Went to the Dr's, they did another ultrasound, and said our baby had died. I chose not to have a D&C, and wait for the baby to pass on it's own. A week later, on the day bafore my husbands birthday, I started bleeding heavily with terrible contractions. The next morning I went to the hospital for an emergency D&C. The loss we're feeling for our little Adrian, is overwhelming. Our baby's been gone since June 6, 2000, and we're now trying to conceive again. But, we'll never be able to replace our first child together. If anyone wants to talk about their experiences, we would love to hear from you. -------------------------------------------------------------- .

Name:Susan
Email: shmeece@hotmail.com
Country: USA
age:33
sex:female
Info: I lost my baby at 10 weeks on Oct. 4th 1999. We had been trying for 3 months and waiting 1 year to start trying. I have two healthy boys ages 7 and 4 who couldn't wait for their baby. I started spotting and they did an ultrasound only to find a blighted ovum. I had to wait 5 more days before I actually miscarried and then they had to assist with a D&C. The most traumatic thing I've ever gone through. Now, I'm pregnant and expecting my baby two weeks before the anniversary of our lost baby's due date. Any e-mail from someone who knows what I'm going through would be great! Or e-mail me if you need a listening ear or a prayer partner. -------------------------------------------------------------- .




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